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First God, then Marriage, Family and Work

by Bishop Anthony B. Taylor

One thing that has always struck me about these guys is that they were married men with family obligations. Peter had a mother-in-law whom Jesus cured, so a wife and maybe children. But when Jesus calls, they give up their job and entrust their families to the care of others. And not only did they subject their families to possible material deprivation by abandoning their job to follow Jesus, their absence meant that their children would have no father in the house, children who, like children today, do have a right to expect their Dad to be around. Isn’t this irresponsible? How can Jesus take husbands and fathers away from families who need them?

VERSE BY VERSE COMMENTARY

1st Reading: Jon 3:1-5, 10

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FOCUS: Marriage & Family

Verse 1: "The word of the LORD came to Jonah a second time."

In this verse, we see Jonah receiving a second chance to carry out God's command after initially disobediently fleeing from it.

This can be related to the theme of marriage and family, as it highlights the importance of forgiveness and second chances within these relationships. Just as God offers Jonah another opportunity, spouses and family members should also be willing to forgive and give one another another chance when mistakes are made.

Verse 2: "Set out for the great city of Nineveh, and announce to it the message that I will tell you."

Here, Jonah is instructed to go to the city of Nineveh and deliver God's message.

Drawing a parallel to marriage and family, this verse emphasizes the role of communication. In a healthy marriage and family, it is crucial to have open and honest communication, relaying messages and expectations clearly to each other.

Verse 3: "Jonah set out for Nineveh, in accordance with the word of the LORD."

This verse illustrates Jonah's obedience to God's command.

Similarly, in the context of marriage and family, it is essential to submit to God's will and follow His commandments. The Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us in paragraph 236 that "marriage is patterned after God's covenant with His people," and it is through obedience to God's teachings that spouses and families can find fulfillment and unity.

Verse 4: "Jonah began his journey through the city, and had gone but a single day's walk announcing, "Forty days more and Nineveh shall be destroyed."

As Jonah proclaimed God's message, he warned the inhabitants of Nineveh about the impending destruction if they did not repent.

This verse can be associated with marriage and family in terms of accountability. Spouses and parents have a responsibility to guide their families, sometimes delivering warnings or difficult messages, in order to ensure the well-being and spiritual growth of their loved ones.

Verse 5: "When the people of Nineveh believed God, they proclaimed a fast and all of them, great and small, put on sackcloth."

The response of the people of Nineveh to Jonah's message demonstrates their belief and willingness to change.

Similarly, in the context of marriage and family, a true conversion and transformation occur when the individuals involved wholeheartedly accept God's teachings and commit to living out their faith. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches in paragraph 164 that "Believing in Jesus Christ and in the One who sent him for our salvation is necessary for obtaining that salvation," emphasizing the importance of faith in marital and familial relationships.

Verse 10: "When God saw by their actions how they turned from their evil way, he repented of the evil that he had threatened to do to them; he did not carry it out."

God's mercy is revealed in this verse as He decides against punishing the people of Nineveh when they repent.

This verse encourages couples and families to seek forgiveness and reconciliation when they stray from God's commandments. The Catechism of the Catholic Church affirms in paragraph 1422 that "those who approach the sacrament of Penance obtain pardon from God's mercy for the offense committed against him and are, at the same time, reconciled with the Church," highlighting the importance of seeking forgiveness and experiencing God's mercy within the context of marriage and family.

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2nd Reading: 1 Cor 7:29-31

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Verse 29: "I tell you, brothers, the time is running out. From now on, let those having wives act as not having them."

In this verse, Paul emphasizes the urgency of the present time and the temporal nature of our earthly lives.

When relating this to marriage and family, it serves as a reminder that the ultimate focus should be on the eternal, rather than solely on earthly attachments. As theologian St. John Chrysostom writes, "Let no one fasten himself or pin himself to such things, but rather to heaven." While marriage and family are important, they should not consume us to the point of neglecting our eternal calling.

Verse 30: "Those weeping as not weeping, those rejoicing as not rejoicing, those buying as not owning."

Paul suggests that our emotional states and material possessions should not define us.

In the context of marriage and family, this verse underscores the need to remain detached from worldly things and not let them become the primary focus within these relationships. As Pope Francis acknowledges, "Married couples must avoid the temptation to absolutize their own family, forgetting that the family is always a gift." Recognizing that marriage and family are blessings to be cherished, but not idolized, helps maintain a proper perspective.

Verse 31: "Those using the world as not using it fully. For the world in its present form is passing away."

Paul emphasizes the transient nature of this world, and how we should not become overly attached to it.

In relation to marriage and family, this verse serves as a reminder that our ultimate goal should not be for earthly gain, but rather for heavenly purposes. St. Augustine expresses this sentiment, stating, "Let married persons not cling one to another with tenacious affection, but to Him whose claim on us all is greater than that of any human being." By focusing on God and His plan for our lives, couples and families are able to navigate the challenges of the world with an eternal perspective.

Verses 18-20: "Avoid immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the immoral person sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body."

These verses stress the importance of avoiding immoral behaviors and honoring the sanctity of the body.

In the context of marriage and family, this includes being faithful to one's spouse, cherishing and respecting each other's bodies, and using the gift of sexuality in accordance with God's plan. The Catechism of the Catholic Church in paragraph 2337 affirms the role of sexuality within the context of marriage, stating, "Chastity means the successful integration of sexuality within the person and thus the inner unity of man in his bodily and spiritual being… Chastity is a moral virtue. It is also a gift from God, a grace, a fruit of spiritual effort."

SOURCE: Content written in collaboration with OpenAI's GPT-3.5 model. If you find an error or would like to add content or edit page, don't hesitate to use contact button below. Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States of America, second typical edition © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Inc., Washington, DC. Used with permission.

Gospel: Mk 1:14-20

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Verse 14: "After John had been arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the gospel of God."

In this verse, we see Jesus beginning His public ministry after John the Baptist's arrest.

This can be related to marriage and family in terms of the call to proclaim the Gospel within the context of these relationships. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches in paragraph 2204 that "the Christian family constitutes a specific revelation and realization of ecclesial communion," meaning that families are called to be witnesses of the Gospel in their daily lives. Familiaris Consortio, in paragraph 52, emphasizes the role of the Christian family as a "domestic church," where the parents are the first preachers of faith to their children.

Verse 15: "This is the time of fulfillment. The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel."

Here, Jesus highlights the urgency of the Gospel message, calling people to repentance and faith in the kingdom of God.

In relation to marriage and family, this verse encourages spouses and families to continually strive for conversion and to embrace God's kingdom values in their relationships. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states in paragraph 2601 that "the prayer of the Church, nourished by the Word of God and the celebration of the liturgy, teaches children how to pray as Jesus prayed," emphasizing the importance of cultivating a life of faith within the family. As stated in the Familiaris Consortio, paragraph 55, "The future of humanity passes by way of the family."

Verse 16: "As he passed by the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting their nets into the sea; they were fishermen."

Jesus encounters Simon and Andrew, who were fishermen by trade. This verse reminds us that Jesus called individuals from various occupations and walks of life.

Similarly, in the context of marriage and family, God calls spouses and parents to fulfill their unique roles and vocations. The Catechism of the Catholic Church affirms in paragraph 1657 that "it is here that the father of the family, the mother, children, and all members of the family exercise the priesthood of the baptized in a privileged way," underlining the importance of embracing and living out one's vocation within the family unit.

Verse 17: "Jesus said to them, "Come after me, and I will make you fishers of men.""

Jesus extends an invitation to Simon and Andrew, calling them to follow Him and become fishers of men.

This verse relates to marriage and family by emphasizing the importance of evangelization within these relationships. Spouses and parents are called to bring others closer to Christ through their example, love, and witness. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states in paragraph 905 that "lay people, to whom marriage and family life is entrusted, must strive to manifest Christian discipleship," highlighting the need for families to actively participate in the mission of evangelization.

Verse 20: "They abandoned their nets and followed him." Simon and Andrew respond immediately to Jesus' call by leaving their occupation and following Him.

In the context of marriage and family, this verse underscores the importance of radical obedience to God's call. Spouses and families should be willing to make sacrifices and prioritize their commitment to Christ above all else. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches in paragraph 1618 that "Christ is the model of chastity," and that spouses are called to be "faithful witnesses of God's love," exemplifying the radical self-giving and loyalty that is required in following Christ.

RELATED: Familiaris Consortio (The Role of the Christian Family in the Modern World)

SOURCE: Content written in collaboration with OpenAI's GPT-3.5 model. If you find an error or would like to add content or edit page, don't hesitate to use contact button below. Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States of America, second typical edition © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Inc., Washington, DC. Used with permission.

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