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October 25, 2026

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Homily Starters

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FAMOUS COUPLES (9:30) – Christopher Reeve’s Wife Never Let Go of Him

Till the Very End

Actor Christopher Reeves had everything–wealth, fame, fabulous health. He was one of the most handsome, physically fit men in Hollywood. Then he fell from a horse. And suddenly he was a quadriplegic. When he awoke from his accident, his first thought was that maybe he should go ahead and die. But one thing stopped him and gave him the will to live. His wife, Dana, spoke to him firmly, yet gently. “I am only going to say this once,” she said. “I will support whatever you want to do, because this is your life and your decision. But I want you to know that I’ll be with you for the long haul, no matter what. You’re still you, and I love you.” Those words gave Christopher Reeves the strength to go on.

[Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Mark & Chrissy Donnelly, and Barbara DeAngelis, Ph.D. Chicken Soup for the Couple’s Soul(Deerfield Beach, FL.: Health Communications, Inc., 1999), pp. 104-105.]

Scriptural Connections

Conjugal Love as Covenant Fidelity: Loving with the Whole Self

In Matthew 22:37, Jesus cites the Shema from Deuteronomy 6:5: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.” In Hebrew biblical thought, love (ahav) is fundamentally covenantal—an intentional, resolute act of the will rather than a fleeting sentiment.

The story of Christopher and Dana Reeve provides a concrete human reflection of this total self-giving love (agape). When Christopher’s catastrophic spinal injury stripped away physical capability, athletic prowess, and worldly stature, he faced despair and contemplated giving up his life. Dana’s response anchored his humanity: “You’re still you. And I love you.”

Dana’s commitment mirrors the unreserved fidelity demanded by the first commandment:

  • Heart (lev): The deliberate choice to anchor her life in her husband’s well-being when all exterior circumstances collapsed.
  • Soul (nefesh): Pouring her vital energy, companionship, and daily devotion into his survival.
  • Strength / Resources (me’od): Reordering her career, home, and physical life to become his primary caregiver.

Her refusal to sever their bond reveals that Christian marital love reflects divine love: it does not depend on utility or physical reciprocity, but honors the irreplaceable soul of the person created in God’s image.

“Love Your Neighbor as Yourself”: The Nearest Neighbor

Jesus connects the primary love of God directly to Leviticus 19:18 in Matthew 22:39: “The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

Theologians consistently emphasize that one’s “neighbor” (rea in Hebrew; plesion in Greek) begins with the person nearest to us. In the domestic church of marriage and family life, the spouse is the first and closest neighbor.

Dana lived the exact measure of Christ’s command: “Be as caring to your neighbor as you are to yourself.” When Christopher could no longer breathe without mechanical assistance, feed himself, or feel physical sensation, Dana became his hands, his breath, and his physical voice.

Her humility in deflecting public acclaim—insisting she was simply a wife caring for her husband and advocating for unrecognized caregivers—reflects genuine evangelical charity. It is self-effacing, persevering through mundane burdens, and rooted in the quiet dignity of sacrificial service.

Inverting the Jericho Road: Eradicating the “Stranger”

A crucial theological link between Matthew 22:39–40 and Christopher Reeve’s post-accident life lies in Christ’s teaching on the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:29–37), which unpacks who qualifies as a neighbor.

Before his injury, Christopher admitted to feeling disconnected from the suffering of those with disabilities, leaving clinics grateful that he was not in their place. After his injury, his theological vision of humanity shifted radically. As he stated:

“We are all one big family. This has taught me a big lesson about complacency. We should never walk by someone in a wheelchair and be afraid of them or think of them as a stranger. That could be us. In fact, it is us.”

This insight directly captures Jesus’ inversion of the question, “Who is my neighbor?”

  • The priest and Levite walked by the beaten man because they viewed him as a detached, alien figure who would disrupt their routine.
  • Christ calls His disciples to recognize that there are no strangers. We do not calculate moral limits; we make ourselves a neighbor to anyone who is broken on the roadside.

Christopher converted his personal catastrophe into an advocacy movement that broke the societal complacency surrounding spinal cord injuries, insisting that the vulnerable, paralyzed, and homebound belong fully to the human family.

From Covenant Suffering to Communal Mission

Matthew concludes the passage with verse 40: “On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.” Every ethical command in the Old Testament—including the protections in Exodus 22 for the widow, the orphan, and the defenseless—finds its fulfillment in active love.

The Reeve Foundation translated personal grief into institutional mercy. When Christopher died and Dana faced both the loss of her mother and her own terminal diagnosis, she did not retreat into bitterness. She assumed leadership of the foundation, serving people who had no public platform to lobby Congress or finance scientific research.

Their mutual ordeal demonstrates that true love of neighbor is neither passive sympathy nor mere sentimentality. It is an outward-facing, redemptive force that takes personal suffering and transforms it into shelter, advocacy, and persistent hope for the afflicted.


Comic of the Week

30th Sunday of Year A

Spousal love:  One Sunday the pastor was finishing up a series on marriage.  At the end of the service he was giving out small wooden crosses to each married couple.  He said, “Place this cross in the room in which you fight the most and you will be reminded of God’s commandment of love and you won’t argue as much.”  One woman came up after the service and said, “You’d better give me five crosses.”

Scriptural Connections

The Cross as the Pattern of Total Love (Shema)

In Matthew 22:37, Jesus points to the first and greatest commandment: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.” In Christian theology, the ultimate visible expression of loving God with one’s entire being is the Cross of Christ. The cross is not an ornament of sentimental romance; it is an instrument of voluntary self-emptying (kenosis).

By handing out crosses to married couples, the pastor makes the cross the visual standard for marital love. When self-will, stubbornness, or temper flared up, the physical cross served as a stark reminder of what covenantal love (agape) actually demands: laying down one’s ego, preferences, and pride for the sake of the other.

The Spouse as the Closest “Neighbor”

Jesus immediately joins the first commandment to the second in Matthew 22:39: “The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

It is easy to profess love for humanity in the abstract, or even to show patience to strangers, while treating the person living under our own roof with sharpness, irritation, or neglect. Yet scripturally and sacramentaly, one’s spouse is the nearest and most vulnerable “neighbor.”

Loving one’s neighbor as oneself within marriage means:

  • Extending the same forbearance, benefit of the doubt, and mercy to a spouse that one naturally desires for oneself.
  • Refusing to treat daily friction as an arena for victory, score-keeping, or domination.

Human Reality and the Need for Multiplied Grace

The humor of the woman asking for five crosses touches directly on the tension between divine command and human weakness:

  • Pervasive Friction: Asking for five crosses acknowledges that conflict does not neatly confine itself to one isolated spot. Domestic discord follows human self-centeredness into the kitchen, the living room, the car, the bedroom, and the hallway.
  • The High Standard of the Law: Christ’s dual command sounds simple—standing on one foot, as the rabbis would say—yet living it out consistently across everyday domestic life is extraordinarily demanding.
  • A Symbol of Grace, Not Just Law: The law commands us to love, but human nature repeatedly fails to do so. The five crosses illustrate that couples do not simply need moral advice; they need God’s grace multiplied across every room of their daily lives to forgive, yield, and begin again.

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Central Theme of Readings

30th Sunday of Year A

The Greatest Commandment

by Fr. Tony Kadavil

The clipart is from the archive of Father Richard Lonsdale © 2000. It may be freely reproduced in any non-profit publication.

The central theme of today’s readings is the greatest Commandment in the Bible, namely, to respond to God’s Infinite Love for us by loving Him, and to express that love in action by loving Him in our neighbor.  The first reading, taken from Exodus, explains the different expressions of the love of one’s neighbor, especially of the underprivileged. Today’s Responsorial Psalm (Ps 18) is our hymn of loving trust in God Who loves us and gives us everything so that we can give it all back to Him in loving His children. So, we sing, “I love You. O Lord, my Strength, O Lord, my Rock, my Fortress, my Deliverer!”   In the second reading, St. Paul praises the Thessalonian Christians for the heroic witness they have borne to Christ   by their loving reception of Him through Paul’s message which has resulted in their model practicing of mutual love. In the Gospel today, Jesus combines the commandment to love God with the commandment to love one’s neighbor and gives the result as the one Commandment of supreme importance in Christian life.

Exodus 22:20-26

The first reading, taken from Exodus explains the second greatest commandment, namely, loving one’s neighbors as one loves oneself, especially the underprivileged. The chosen people of Israel should remember that once they were aliens in the land of Egypt. Just as God protected them and treated them kindly, so they are to protect others and treat them with kindness. Thus, they should become a humane society rooted in the basic religious concept of loving God living in their neighbor.

First reading (Ex 22:20-26) explained: The Cyrus mentioned here is Cyrus II, the Great, who founded the Persian Empire. In 539 B.C., he conquered the Babylonians who had defeated the Jews 50 years earlier and had taken many of them into captivity. He decided to liberate the Jews from their exile and allow them to go back to their home country, Judea. In this passage, the prophet Isaiah declares that Cyrus, even though a pagan, was God’s instrument.  The amazing fact is that God actually used Cyrus to restore His people to their homeland.  

God is able and willing to use ungodly powers to achieve His ends because He is the God not only of the Jews, but of history and of the whole world. Hence, He anointed Cyrus as a savior of His people.  Cyrus carried out God’s plan by setting the Jewish exiles free and giving them permission to go back to Judah to rebuild their Temple and city.  He also   returned to them the gold and silver vessels which Nebuchadnezzar had taken from the Temple.  And that is how a pagan emperor became, in God’s hand, the instrument by means of whom the people of Israel might return to their Promised Land. 

This passage also contains a new theological idea.  To call this pagan king, “Messiah” or “Christos” meaning “the Lord’s anointed” (a title given exclusively to the kings, prophets and priests of the Chosen People), was quite revolutionary.  Like other passages from Isaiah, it was meant to challenge the Jews’ parochialism and give them a more universal view of God’s concern and plan.


1 Thess 1:5c-10

In the second reading, St. Paul congratulates the Thessalonians on the positive effects of their example of loving one another as Jesus had commanded them to do. Their mutual love and their loving reception of Paul and response to his preaching, he tells them, has bolstered the Faith of Christians elsewhere who have heard about them.

The Second Reading, 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5 explained: Bible scholars believe that this letter, addressed to the new Jewish and the Gentile Christians of northern Greece (Thessalonica), is the earliest document of the whole New Testament, written in Corinth in A.D. 50. There was more Faith, Hope, and Charity among the Thessalonians than Paul could credit to his own preaching; the Holy Spirit was clearly at work.  Along with 1 Thes 5:8, this is the earliest mention in Christian literature of the three “theological virtues” (see 1 Cor 13:13). From today’s text it is clear that these people worked hard at being Christians, and that Saint Paul thought that praiseworthy.  Hence, he praised his converts for their fidelity to God and to Christ, assuring them of his prayers.  He hoped that they would continue to be faithful to the call God had given them, a call proved by the many gifts of the Holy Spirit bestowed on them. 


Matthew 22:34-40

In the Gospel today, Jesus combines the commandment to love God with the commandment to love one’s neighbor and gives the result as the one Commandment of supreme importance in Christian life. Jesus underlines the principle that we are to love our neighbor as we love ourselves because, as God’s children, both of us bear God’s image, and to honor God’s image is to honor Him. Love for our neighbor should not be a matter of feelings, but of deeds by which we share with others the unmerited love that God lavishes on us.

Gospel exegesis: The context: A Pharisee, who believed in both the written Law and the oral tradition, seeing how Jesus had defeated the Sadducee who had tried to humiliate Him with the hypothetical case of a woman who married seven husbands, asked Jesus to summarize the most important of the Mosaic Laws in one sentence.  This was a challenge because, in the Judaism of Jesus’ day, there was a double tendency to expand the Mosaic Law into hundreds of rules and regulations and to condense the 613 precepts of the Torah into a single sentence or few sentences. [The Phariseesthemselves identified 613 commandments in the Torah (the first five books of the Bible). Two hundred forty-eight were positive (“thou shalt”) and three hundred sixty-five were negative (“thou shalt not”). Summarizing the Law, King David proposed eleven (Ps 15), Isaiah six (33:15), Micah three (6:8), and Amos only one (5:4). From the Commandments that deal with “loving our neighbor,” the Jewish scholars of the law produced 14 particular commandments about business practices, 19 about employees, servants and slaves, 36 about courts and judicial procedure, eleven about property rights, seven about criminal law, and 24 about punishment and restitution.  Yet that doesn’t exhaust the commands to “love our neighbor”!  When you turn to “loving God”, the lists of commandments are even longer, including 33 about the Temple and sacred objects, 46 about idolatry, and 102 about sacrifices and offerings!  With 613 commandments, it was easy for the average Jew to lose focus.  Jesus wanted to bring a focus to God’s command to love Him first and foremost.] Jesus’ answer teaches us that the most important commandment is to love God with all our hearts, souls, minds and strength, in Himself and in all His children, our neighbors. In other words, we are to love God and express our love by loving our neighbor because God lives in him or her. Some Bible scholars think that the original question was a trap question because the Pharisees believed that all of the 613 commands (mitzot) in the Torah were equally important and necessary to obey. Therefore, they were trying to corner Jesus into showing either ignorance about the Law, or disrespect for parts of it by choosing one command over the others.

Jesus’ contribution: Jesus gave the Pharisee a straightforward answer, quoting directly from the Law itself, startling his listeners with his profound simplicity and mastery of the Law of God and its purpose. Jesus’ answer was very orthodox, and very traditional. (“The summary of the law is not original with Jesus. Its two parts represent a combination of Dt 6:5 and Lev 19:18. Nor is the combination itself original to Jesus, for it is found in at least one earlier Jewish work, the Testaments of the Twelve Patriarchs, an amalgam of wisdom and apocalyptic materials.” Reginald H. Fuller).  Jesus citedthe first sentence of the Jewish Shema prayer: … “Therefore, you shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength” (Dt 6:5).  Then He added its complementary law: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Lv 19:18).  Finally, He declared that the “whole Law and the prophets” depended on the commands to love God “with all your heart, with all your soul and all your mind” and to love “your neighbor as yourself.”  Jesuscombined the originally separate commandments and presented them as the essence of true religion.  The uniqueness of Jesus’ response consisted his understanding that the two laws have equal value and so are of equal importance because they are interdependent.   We are to love our neighbor and our self as a way to love God: God gives us our neighbors and commands us to love them, and so we obey; His purpose is that in obeying, we learn to love Him better.  God contacts us daily through our neighbors. Thus, Jesus proclaims that true religion loves God both directly and as living in our neighbor.  Biblical love of God is responsive gratitude for, and remembrance of, what God has done for us, rather than an independent project we undertake for God. (“Without the love of neighbor, the love of God remains a barren emotion; and without the love of God, love of neighbor is but a refined form of self-love.” Reginald H. Fuller).

 Catechism on the greatest commandment (CCC #2083, #2196): Love of God means putting Him first, respecting His Name, and keeping His Day [the Sabbath; Sunday for us] Holy.  To love God means a dedication of the entire person to His will, placing Him first in one’s mind and the heart, speaking respectfully about Him, and keeping His Day as one of prayer and true recreation, a day to keep His Law.  Love of God transforms lives every waking moment of every day.

Love of neighbor means respect for others, their relationships, their reputations, and their property.  Dt 6:5 and Lv 19:18 indicate love in action. Loving our neighbor as ourselves means looking at and treating others with the respect God gives them.  This love begins at home with one’s parents.  It then extends to others beyond our family and friends to strangers, especially to the poor, the sick, and the sinner.  Love of neighbor knows no national borders, class distinctions or barriers of any kind, because God knows no such impediments.

To love our neighbor: The English writer G. K. Chesterton once observed that “The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because they are generally the same people!” Jesus underlines the principle that we are to love our neighbor as we love ourselves because both of us bear God’s image, and to honor God’s image is to honor Him. The love of God has priority and is our source of love for neighbor. In our neighbor we see something of God, His creature, His image and likeness, and His adopted child. If we love God, then, we must also love His image, the work of His hands. God makes daily contact with us through the people around us. Love for our neighbor is a matter, not of feelings, but of deeds by which we share with others the unmerited love that God lavishes on us.  This is the love for neighbor that God commands in His law.  Since the Jews considered only their fellow-Jews as neighbors, Jesus, challenged, used the parable of the Good Samaritan, as reported in Luke’s Gospel, to show them what God means by “neighbor.”

Life Messages

30th Sunday of Year A

Loving God

by Fr. Tony Kadavil

Loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength as our response to His Love for us means that we should place God’s will ahead of ours, seek the Lord’s will in all things, and make it paramount in our lives. There are several means by which we can express our love for God and our gratitude to Him for His blessings, acknowledging our total dependence on Him. We need to keep God’s commandments, and offer daily prayers of thanksgiving, praise and petition. We also need to read and meditate on His word in the Bible and accept His invitation to join Him in the Mass and other liturgical functions when we can.


God’s Will: Love Everyone

by Fr. Tony Kadavil

God’s will is that we should love everyone, seeing Him in our neighbor.  Since every human being is the child of God and the dwelling place of the Spirit of God, we are actually giving expression to our love of God by loving our neighbor as Jesus loves him or her.  This means we need to help, support, encourage, forgive, and pray for everyone without any discrimination based on color, race, gender, age, wealth, personal attractiveness, or social status. Forgiveness, too, is vital.  We love others by refusing to hold a grudge for a wrong done to us.  Even a rebuke can be an act of love, if it is done with the right heart. We also express love through encouragement and by helping each other to grow.  We express agápe love, seeking the true good of another,  by meeting a need that God has given us the power to meet, by comforting each other, by teaching each other, and by sharing the Gospel in deeds and in words. We express our love for our neighbor by waiting upon the aged, nursing the sick, patching up quarrels, and listening to the broken-hearted. In short, loving our neighbor is feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, meeting the basic needs of the poor, helping the unemployed, educating the young, and taking care of the old.  

Our Heart’s Investments

by Fr. Tony Kadavil

When Jesus says, “Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s and to God what is God’s,” the command really asks us whether we have invested our heart in the right place, in something worthy of our life’s blood, something that will yield a return that’s worthy of a whole human life. There is only one way to find out where our hearts are. Let us check our daily choices, the little ones as well the big ones, and look for the patterns: What do we  usually do when decision time comes for where we will spend our prime time and our best energies? These are the infallible indicators of what we truly value, and what we don’t. Whose image do others see when they look at our life? When people see us, do they see Jesus engraved upon us? To the extent that they do, we are making visible the extent to which we belong to the Kingdom of God.